I had to wait another week as they had nothing available but the wait only solidified my resolve. So, I booked a medical abortion (the pills). I was in my last year of undergrad, a single mum to two small kids, and I’d just landed a prestigious internship that could not be done while pregnant as it required certain physical abilities. I never had a doubt about what I needed to do. The test almost immediately popped up positive. We had almost nothing in common other than great sexual compatibility. 'I was in the process of divorce, waiting on finalisation. Every few years he emails me to ask how the kid is, and since I know where the kid is and can ask about him, I tell him what I know.' 'I booked a medical abortion and have no regrets' That also helped when I gave the child up because I didn't need his permission. I didn't want him beholden to me so I didn't put his name on the birth certificate. He was understandably upset just as I was.

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I love him for the love he has with our child. We had no interest in each other besides sex and food. His fiancé is amazing and we call her 'other mother' because that lady stepped and decided, 'I love this man, I love this child'. 'I was in a bad place mentally and found this dude. We moved in together four months later and we’ve been married 14 years this year.' 'We call his fiancé the 'other mother'' After our son was born, he came to visit and I realised I had some strong feelings for him. He called me every week during my pregnancy to check on me and the baby. He reacted by asking me if I was going to have an abortion. 'He asked me if I was going to have an abortion' Here's what IRL women did when they fell pregnant after a casual hookup. But what happens when a one night stand ends in an unexpected pregnancy? What do you do then? Do you tell the father, even though you don't know the guy? Or do you make a decision as to what to do next all by yourself? Having sex with someone you don't know, who doesn't know what you like or how your body works can be disappointing to say the least. They can be a giant laugh that you look back on fondly, and recount to your friends over beers the next day.

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